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marital problems & eft to let go

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12:22 am
July 23, 2010


PricklyRose

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Hi,

I am having marital problems. I am not in the position to get divorced right now. he is always depressed about money, even just paying bills when there is money, depresses him. Not being able to do his "ultimate" goal depresses him, even though he knows it wouldn't have given lots of benefit (living somewhere overseas, while our kids couldn't have lived there with their special needs).

Right now I am intimately deprived, emotionally deprived. I have decided to leave him be and pursue as much as I want as much as i can without abandoning my kids and those household duties.


i'm just having a hard time figuring out how to eft that.


I feel like I have been robbed – of my youth, beauty, a lot of things, and no one appreciates it – especially him, because he is a "man" its his right. blah, balh. blah , blah. he can always find a way to come out being right and making me look bad, and then, its "thats women stuff", etc, etc.


so I really need to tapp on this, i know it probablydoesn't help that I have pcos, and i'm more than certain my emotional blocks are blocking the weight I have from coming off.

 so, thats my story without going into "too much info" zone. I appreciate just bein able to let it go, or whatever. I think I might have to seriously get an online journal or something, lol.

 I would deeply appreciate any advice and help on this one. thanx.

6:50 am
November 25, 2011


danydaniela

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       Hy I don't know how are you going now in your marriage with your partner, I hope you found some improvements, I am going to write you shortly my experience because I found myself in the same place that you describe it and I hope my experience could help you also.
     So I found myself in the place where I got triggered very often by my partner and I hear you when you are saying that he doesn't appreciate you "because he is a "man" its his right and then "he can always find a way to come out being right and making me look bad" . In all this I feel like you gave your power away, you think that he is responsable for the mess in your marriage….the only problem with this is that you find yourself powerless and you feel like the things are going out of your control, but the truth is that The Power is within us, we are creating the reality that we are seeing , honestly I had a hard time to admit this to myself because my EGO wants so much to be right even if doing so it is stopping us to be happy.Ego likes make you believe that is the another's person fault , but the truth is that if you wanna take your power back you have to look within yourself and clear(And the EFT is the best method I used with success till now) all the stuff and limiting beliefs that are stopping you from reaching the love and understanding you wanna have in your marriage.

     I know from my experience that when I stopped to blame my partner and I started to look inside me and clear…. then AMAZING things happened for me, issues get solved out of the blue without me doing nothing but TAP, TAP and TAP. There are many things that I could tell you about this … but I wanna show you a place where you can go and you can find support (as I found) and in this community there are persons who can support you and give you advices so that you can get your Power Back in every area of your life,…. and if money is an issue, you'll find advices that work in that area too, …. and if you already made some great decisions in your life maybe you need some support and advices for your next journey.

     I highly recommend you to search for support from persons that already achieved that what you wanna achieve, many times this support is highly costly… but here where I am sending you, I am still finding the answers to my questions and I have all the support  when I need it. I am talking about Erika Awakening's work you can find out more here http://goo.gl/otniN (here you can try all the videos released at a trial price of 7$ , this is more then a gift for the value that you'll recieve, you have nothing to loose in trying it ) and you'll also be a part of an Private Facebook Community so that you can start get personal and immediate support from the experts…..

     these are some of the articles and Tap Along Videos for this specific problem

    http://goo.gl/Sgb8m(Reprogramming "Negative Mind Movies")  ,

    http://goo.gl/EU8MR (Tap-along video to release the limiting belief: "I’m scared to be honest with my partner (or other important person in my life)") and a lot more.
  I hope this could help you, you can also find me in the Private Facebook Group.
  Hugs Daniela.



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